RRR Songs (Songs of Regret, Repentance and Ruefulness)
I started this new series on 17 Jan 21 on my Facebook Group Yaad Kiya Dil Ne. My efforts failed to involve people in writing their own stuff about songs and music rather than copying and pasting from here and there or worse, just sharing url of songs from YouTube. Hence, I had decided to give the group a burial that it deserved rather than making it like thousands of groups on Facebook about songs with nothing unique about them at all.
Song #1
Mujhe dard-e-dil ka pata na tha, mujhe aap kis liye mil gaye
Exactly Fifty Days to Go
Finally, the kind of inevitability that I entertained more than an year ago, is shared by all pillars of YKDN. Time has come to say goodbye.
By the time we bury this group on 08 Mar this year, we would have completed:
- A total of 195 Beautiful Duets.
- A total of 193 Raat or Din Songs.
- A total of 133 Zindagi or Jeevan Songs.
I shall be adding five songs to Beautiful Duets and seven to Raat or Din Songs to make these 200 each. Similarly, we may add 17 songs to Zindagi or Jeevan songs to make these 150. Thus, we the 50 RRR songs, we shall have 600 of some of the finest songs in this group on themes that are never far from our minds.
This Song
Hindi movies have songs on every emotion and some of us shall continue using songs to expressing our own emotions long after the group is buried.
After making my more than a dozen groups and pages, I have spent more time on YKDN than on any other group or page. Hence, I can be excused saying it with Majrooh Sultanpuri:
मुझे दर्द-ए-दिल का पता न था मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये? मैं अकेले यूँ भी मज़े में था मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये? यूँ ही अपने अपने सफ़र में गुम कहीं दूर मैं कहीं दूर तुम कहीं दूर तुम चले जा रहे थे जुदा जुदा मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये? मैं अकेले यूँ भी मज़े में था मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये? न मैं चांद हूँ किसी शाम का न चिराग़ हूँ किसी बाम का किसी बाम का मैं तो रास्ते का हूँ एक दिया मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये? मैं अकेले यूँ भी मज़े में था मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये? मुझे दर्द-ए-दिल का पता न था मुझे आप किस लिये मिल गये?
Akashdeep – 1965 Movie
This movie was directed by Phani Majumdar for the primary reason that sometime or the other I shall be able to use this as an RRR Song. Thank you Phani, thank you Majrooh, thank you Chitragupt and thank you Mohammad Rafi. If you guys hadn’t given me this song, I won’t have known how to start my RRR Series.
My Own Poetry
My sister Manik Lakhkar Chava behna has objected to more than once that my posts lose their luster if I don’t put up my poems with them. So, here is one:
KAHAN HAIN HAMDARD?
आदत सी पड़ गई है हमें,
रखते हैं बन्द ज़ुबान।
वह बात बात पे लेते हैं,
हमारा ही इम्तिहान।
सब तो परिंदे हैं यहां,
दो घड़ी के हैं महमान।
पर उन्हें क्यूं यह लगता है,
उन्हीं का तो है जहान।
मेरा घर भी कुछ अजीब है,
जैसे हो कोई शमशान।
यहां लाश पड़ी है सपनों की,
वहां पड़े हैं मेरे अरमान।
अब तक तो खड़ा था,
ग़म ओ बेबसी के दरमियान।
अब तो वह भी मुझे देख के,
दिखते हैं बहुत हैरान।
जीने की सलाह देते हैं सब,
पर जीना नहीं है आसान।
शहर ए ज़िन्दगी बड़ा तो है,
पर गलियां हैं सुनसान।
आधी ज़िन्दगी बनाते रहे,
हम अपनी ही एक पहचान।
बाकी की ज़िन्दगी में अब,
मन करता है बनें अनजान।
इतनी बड़ी दुनिया में, रवि,
कोई एक तो होगा इन्सान।
दूसरों के दुख देख कर,
खुद को समझे पशेमान।
Ladies and gentlemen, please enjoy: Mujhe dard-e-dil ka pata na tha…
I hope you liked Song #1 in this series.
Please await Song #2: Koi lauta de mere beete huye din.




RK Nayyar’s 1963 movie Yeh Raaste Hain Pyar Ke was based on the case of navy Commander KM Nanavati who returned from sailing and shot dead the lover of his wife.
One can call it an unforgettable song both for its lyrics that silently touch your heart in many ways and its sensitive handling by Ravi. Here are the lyrics for you to appreciate:
Majrooh was from that part of Uttar Pradesh that produced some of the greatest lyricists in Hindi movies: Kaifi from Azamgarh, Shakeel from Badayuni and he himself from Sultanpur. Many many years later, politically, it was said that the winners in UP normally made the government at the centre. That was the effect of people in that part of the world both poetically and politically.
With such beautiful lyrics, who is there to compose them? Well, the maestro: Madan Mohan himself. Recall what he did to Kaifi’s Main ye soch kar uske dar se utha tha? He transformed already great lyrics into something totally sublime. He did the same here.
And now for the other relatively insignificant details. The song is from the 1958 Mahesh Kaul movie Aakhri Dao starring Nutan and Shekhar. He has been asked to sing in a picnic party and he sings, not to everyone, but only to her. She is uncomfortable with the revelation of his love for her in such intense words in front of everyone. You should see the way she looks and the way others, especially Shammi, looks at her.


This movie was directed by Prasad and starred Nanda in the title role, supported by Balraj Sahni, Rehman, Mehmood and Shobha Khote. I already talked about their duet: Main rangeela pyar ka rahi.
I have already given you a Raat song penned by this great lyricist. This one is a Raat, Chanda song as well as a beautiful duet. Please appreciate the lyrics penned by him:
They made a very popular pair of Lyricist and Music Director. Their 1954 movie Nagin is their most talked about association; each song is still talked about as if it was yesterday.
As I have said any number of times, some of the finest duets in the Hindi movies were sung by them. This duet has the standard format: He sings one stanza, she sings the next one and then they sing one together. Dil ki nazar se is in this format but sung by Mukesh and Lata Mangeshkar.
It happened in this song and the movie Aadmi. Yesterday, on Chitragupta’s Birth Anniversary, I gave you a song in Beautiful Duet Series: Chand jaane kahan kho gaya. It was, I mentioned, for the 1962 A Bhimsingh movie Main Chup Rahungi. I had given you a list of movies directed by A Bhimsingh and mentioned that Aadmi of the year 1968 was one of them.
So fond he was of his guru Mohammad Rafi that one day, as related by Annu Kapoor on Mastii channel in a late night show, he was being felicitated on stage for his singing skills. He noticed the son of Mohammad Rafi, his guru, sitting in the audience. He called him on stage, touched his feet, garlanded him and said, “How can I be felicitated in a function that has the presence of the son of my guru?”
Everyone knows the legend of Sohni Mehiwal, a tragic romance of Punjab and I am not going to repeat it. On this night when Mahendra Kapoor sang this iconic song, she was to take the journey across the river on her clay pitcher that she used every night to meet Mehiwal, her lover. Sohni’s sister-in-law had already discovered the place where Sohni kept the pitcher and replaced it with a kuchcha one so that the love affair would be over once and for all. Sohni undertook the journey and drowned. Mehiwal saw her drowning and jumped into the river himself to save her. The river was in spate and he drowned too and united with her in death.
This particular incident is so popular in folk-lore that Shobha Singh of Andretta made his famous painting Sohni Mehiwal (now in Chandigarh Art Museuam). I have a copy of it in Whispering Winds, Kandaghat.
Shakeel Badayuni wrote about Love only (others were all part of Progressive Writers Movement and had Communist leanings) and he seems to have put in his best in this. His mentor Naushad has composed it so well. It was to be high pitch throughout and Naushad must have felt that Mahendra Kapoor’s voice was better suited for it. And indeed it was. Here are the lyrics:
Some of the Hindi movies’ best duets and other songs were composed by him. His songs always ensured the success of movies such as Kashmir Ki Kali and Phir Wohi Dil Laaya Hoon and Phagun.

So, lets take the case of Shahjehan who erected Taj Mahal for Mumtaz. In 1607 he was engaged to Anjuman Banu Begum who was later to become Mumtaz Mahal (Chosen one of the Palace). They were only 14 years old when they got engaged and waited five years to get married. So, during this wait Shahjehan married Khandari Begum and got his first daughter through her. Before Mumtaz died, Shajehan married another eight women. So, it was nowhere near single minded devotion depicted poetically.
The song is from the 1965 Kalidas movie Bheegi Raat (Imagine having the theme-word in the title itself), which was a remake of the Hollywood movie An Affair To Remember.
Majrooh was the reluctant lyricist (he never wanted to become one until Jigar Moradabadi coaxed him to). However, in his very first movie Shahenshah, in which AR Kardar and Naushad gave him a break, he came up with such memorable songs that the hero KL Saigal wanted one of these to be sung on his funeral (Jab dil hi toot gaya). No wonder that he became the first lyricist to be conferred with the highest award: Dadasaheb Phalke Award. He became a natural lyricist.
Here he is with RD Burman, the genius music director who gave us some memorable songs in various genre’s including Qawwali in Raag Kalawati in Hum Kisise Kam Nahin, serious songs in Aandhi, and pop songs that he mastered. This duet owes to him to come up with a tune that is still on everyone’s lips nearly five decades after the movie.
This was overwhelmingly voted as the Best Children’s Song in a poll in 2015. To imagine that the song occurred in the 1961 movie Gunga Jumna! Fifty four years later, it was still voted as the best! That says a lot about this song.